Every time I join a room, it's hard to connect to other players or I can't connect at all. It shows me as FP or they're FP. No idea what that means either lol. Anyways if any of you gentlemen or ladies may be able to help me out that would be great.

You'll need to forward port 16000 in your router settings, as well as set up a static IP for your computer so the IP for the port forward doesn't change. You should find links to instructions for your router model here: http://www.voobly.com/forum/thread/163483

Let me know if you have any issues.