There is no option to select user patch in mod(1.3/1.4) and i dont even see the recorded games in aoc i only see the files in my folder. Is there a way to include user patch in mods or something..

I don't understand what you are trying to explain; please re-state your request.

https://www.voobly.com/gamemods/mod/51/UserPatch

This doesnt work anymore, the old recorded games played on userpatch 1.3 or 1.4 are impossible to look at. They don't appear in game either. So countless years of replays are obsolete without being able to have theses patches in mods or something.

UP 1.3 is not available / supported by Voobly. 1.4 RC should still work fine, just place the recorded games in the AOC savegamr folder and don't forget to select the correct patch in your game room settings.

there is no 1.4 rc to select

Install it!
https://www.voobly.com/gamemods/mod/114/v14-RC < Last Release Candidate
https://www.voobly.com/gamemods/mod/493/v14-Final < Final Version